Okay, so I've never had a bf, I'm 23 and told constantly how beautiful and pretty I am. I'm Argentianian descent and have a very unique look: near black thick, curly hair, light blue eyes, and a great rack... I'm a little on the chubby side, but I carry it very well.
Every guy I've ever really liked, I told or asked out only to be rejected:
2 guys from college: one said he was taken, the other said he was confused sexually
one from high school who said I dress like a retarded lesbian
one from current college, but he was my ta... so, yeah, I messed up there, but seriously, he showed too many signs of interest like gazing at me in class...
maybe it's the guys I'm asking out... but I think it's definitely something wrong with me. maybe i'm just a piece of shit that doesn't deserve to be loved by anyone?
maybe i'm too bold?
I don't know, but I've never had any guys that I've been remotely interested in like me...
maybe I should give up...
also, I know my English and grammar here is terrible, but I have class soon... so im in a hurry.
would appreciate advice before I have a nervous breakdown and rip my hair out.
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Boom Just hold up. The first thing is that you have so negative feelings about you which is just plainly wrong which maybe is impacting you so for that you should first of all think good about yourself because if you don't think good about yourself no one else will and other will surely get a negative fell around you SO First respect you and yourself.
Second thing will be enjoy yourself and be happy and see what difference it makes. Boys don't like girls who look desperate or are acting desperate so just chill and make yourself like you are something that guy WANT and not need. Market yourself on FB, Instagram by uploading pic's of yourself every alternate day so nice pic's and some a bit scandalous.
And ALWAYS remember to SMILE and be POSITIVE1