There is a guy I really like and we met almost 4 weeks ago during a family trip. He knows my family already (cousin aunts) since he came to the trip along side my cousin who is his best friend. He is an adult just like me we are in our early 40's, he has no kids I have no kids, he is divorced though and I am never been married before.
I believe he got attracted to me. The thing is that since that trip we haven't seen each other again but this time just me and him. We already agree on going to the movies next week. Now would it be correct or apprpopriate to tell a guy on taht date that I want to see him again I mean after the date is finished? I mean cause I want to get to know this guy more, but I dont know if it is the man duty to say to the woman he wants to see her again or if the woman can say that. We are not teenagers anymore and we supposed to know what he wants without going around the bushes.
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This is just my opinion.
It is not wrong or right to ask that. But as a lady/woman/girl, never ask that... first. Please don't because he will think that you are desperate. Let it happen naturally. There are plenty of ways to know about this guy you like. This is the FIRST proper date so be upfront. But do not ask about his past. My boyfriend is divorced also, so I know somewhat about this. Although he is divorce, let everything happen naturally. Meaning let him say "I hope to see you again" first.
Again, this is the FIRST proper date so be upfront. Use some of Steve Harvey's advices. Ask him what is or are his short- and long-term goals. Ask what is he looking for in a relationship. If YOU want to have a long-term (monogamous) relationship then make sure he is ready for a serious relationship. I am just afraid that sometimes after a divorce some men afraid to commit again.
Being upfront is the best for the first proper date. Because you don't want to waste your time or his time. So I hope my words help you. :)0
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