Question see above. And also: What would be the optimum in your opinion? How often should you see each other? Do you think things can work out if you don't hear from each other every day? Share your experiences and opinions :)
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I think it's very important to remember that a healthy relationship means that there needs to be some healthy balance. Too much space and awkward silence can make conversation points harder but the current relationship I'm in now is so far working well based on the following:
Firstly to answer your initial headline question, I was friends with my now boyfriend for a year and a half before we mutually decided to become a couple.
The optimum? As long as two people know each other well enough, time varies but maybe at least a solid lot of months or a year at minimum to know their quirks etc.
Ok now for the juice:
-my guy and I see each other twice during the weeknight, say Wednesday, then Friday/Saturday maybe through to Sunday morning. It varies depending what plans he or I have. Doing things together or sepately is healthy and not too smothering.
- Things are fine if you don't talk every day but chances are, if a man talks to you a few times daily, he has you on his mind for sure. My guy talks to me daily. If I don't hear from him, I miss him. Missing each other is good to feel as well. More to catch up on and more appreciation felt and given. Being available too much means a person isn't living life to full capacity. Besides, hobbies and interests are great to have :) makes us curious creatures. My guy paints and plays warhammer, I paint, do photography, I do all sorts of things. But we take an interest for each other's hobbies and passions. :)0