Alright, so you stumble upon someone of the opposite gender (or same gender, in case you're homosexual), and you realize that they're completely smitten by you. They seem compatible with you on so many levels, and you too enjoy talking with them. You know that the person likes you, and you somewhere inside you get the feeling that they might be the best person for you. But the thing is, although they aren't necessarily bad looking, you don't completely feel physically attracted to them. You don't find them 'unattractive', but at the same time you feel that they are not your type in terms of looks. But apart from the physical attraction part, you do acknowledge that this person is a rare gem, and letting him/her go now might make you regret your decision. And even the other person would be totally disappointed.
So what would you do in this kind of situation? Because I'm faced with a similar situation right now, and I don't know what to do.
P. S. You are compatible with him/her in so many ways, and even in terms of looks they are good looking but just not your type.
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Most Helpful Girl
Usually physical attraction grows with mental attraction
That's usually how I end up liking people I never found attractive before
However, the catch is that usually happens before you date
Because I tried it the other way around you know dating someone I didn't like but we were compatible everywhere else "best friend, guy" and lets just say that didn't go well and the attraction didn't grow neither did the chemistry
I mean we had chemistry but not like the kind couples had/ the kind friends had well that's what I had he totally felt chemistry and I did not
We weren't friends for a while "awkward "
But totally cool about it now
Some people are better left in the friend zone1
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