So I have been seeing this guy for a couple months now and he told me he doesn't feel a spark, I told him if he didn't feel one we needed to cut this off cause I do not want to get attached, he told me he still wants to date because he is attracted to me and he does really like me, he says I am the best thing for him and I have great qualities that he adores such as how caring I am and how motherly I am like how I always put everyone before myself anf I would make a good wife one day.. I am so confused about all of this please help!! Am I wasting my time and just gonna get hurt or what?
Might I add that I do really like him and I can see a future with him, I am falling hard and just don't want to keep this going if it'll hurt me bad in the end.
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It's normal for the spark to fade after a few months. I've been with my boyfriend for a good 9 months and I'm EXPECTING the spark to die out. It happens when you get comfy with each other. However, I don't expect our love for one another to fade. Just the butterflies and excitement of dating a new person. We are pretty set on trying out a life together.
At least you guy is honest. It really all depends on how he said it and in what situation he said it. I would try to see him less, but still regularly, you know? Just enough to see how he deals without you around.0