Currently, I pretend everything is perfect. ALL the time. In the past, I've tried to bring up issues. It didn't matter what the issue was. It didn't matter how I brought up the issue or how nicely I put it. It was always "too stressful" for him. I feel like he can't handle anything outside of happiness (not just in the relationship aspect). Am I wrong for feeling this is just slightly too sensitive? (Normally, I try to be very understanding.) What am I supposed to do? Is there some way to get my frustrations out without telling him? I would really like to make this work.
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If you want to make it work sweet you're gonna have to tell him, and make sure he listens..
Ahh he sounds very frustrating haha.
But in a partner, they're somewhat of your support system.. you shouldn't have to hide your feelings with them!
Try and say 'I know this conversation might be a little uncomfortable for you, but this is really important to me...'
Hope you manage to work it all out!1