For the last 4 months, my girlfriend and I have been madly in love. We are always telling each other i love you and being super affectionate and spending a lot of time together and we are so happy together. She always happily and enthusiastically tells me she loves me back whenever i tell her i love her.
Yesterday we got into a big argument and whenever I tell her I love her now, she never says it back. It has been a day and she still isn't say i love you back.
It seems like we made up because we are really having a good time together and having a lot of fun right now but she still won't say she loves me back even though yesterday before the argument, she was saying it all the time. Several hours before the argument, she was saying she loves me a lot
Why does she no longer tell me she loves me back when i say i love her when we appear to have made up.
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First all I'm a lesbain, so I really know women because I am one and I date them.
She is promptly still upset, and is taking it out on you by not saying she loves you anymore. Maybe you should stop saying it to her since she not giving you the same amount or respect and love back through her words.
But also this could be a test. Women sometimes like to cause drama and stirr up the relationship to test your strength. So you can just remain happy and joke be fun with her like never happen and stop sayin I love you. Or you can ask her to talk about her feeling until she gets it out in courage her to tell you what's wrong. And it your point not respond just listen.
Or you feel she did you wrong in argument then tell how you feel one more time tell you will not tolerate it and mean it because if your don't mean it she walk all over you forever.
You saying I love you is a gift, so use it wisely.
But I think mostly she just being a woman and storing things up, so take it lightly and just relax.0