Ok I no I will get stick for this ! He has a girlfriend and child , we have been seeing each other for just under 2 years. I did not set out to meet someone who has a gf !! It happened I fell for him and he tells me he loves me and can't let go of me. We have our ups and downs we argue ! I did something silly and stupid I wasn't thinking I messaged his gf and said hi this is... Is... About? She asked who I was I said a friend of his , he then texted me saying why did I message her? It was out of frustration I do t know why I did it. She kept messaging me and calling my phone I ignored it. He obviously told her something to get out of it and he's sorted that mess out. But he still wants to carry on with me he says he has strong feelings for me. Even after what I've done he's still wanting to take risks !! I tried to pull away but can't. He says we have chemistry and has never felt like he does with a women like he feels for me. I told him to get on with his own life and to leave me alone he called me and we talked and we are back seeing each other , we can't let go. I'm so confused , he's taking huge risks and what I did he's still wanting me ! Any other person would have kept away knowing what I did but he's still messaging me everyday , I know he has feelings for me but I have to , I'm in love with someone who I will never be with and I accept. Why is he still hanging around after what I did
Why is he still hanging around after I did this to him?
What Guys Said 1
Right now, no offense you look like a home wrecker. I'm not saying you are, you were their first it sounds like. And I'm sure you aren't the villain here. But if I didn't know the whole story. I'd think you were a typical home wrecker that ruins relationships. Let him go, if he wanted to date you he would have. Show him you aren't going to take his s***1
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What Girls Said 2
Because he loves you and want to be with uou so he over looked that. Maybe even because he was going to break up with her anyway.0
wow, sounds really tricky... why would you accept this? no judging or anything, but this way he gets to disrespect all of you his girlfriend, the child, yourself. He is the only one who gets what he wants and he is not scarifying anything for either of you guys. if you are into adrenaline rush stuff... do something adventurous, but healthy, coz this not :(0
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