So here it is...i am on a dating site...and after getting burned by someone on there(we were suppose to be exclusive...but he was still on there looking)So finished it.Anyway now rather than just date one man I have decided to date a few at a time...just dating no sex...(didn't have sex with previous person either I like to wait and get to know them properly if poss.So is it wrong...to just date and see how it goes kinda thing with different men rather than put my eggs in one basket again...And do I need to tell these men...After all it is a dating site and until you both say exclusive and are in a relationship I really don't see the point...What you think.Answers please.Thanks.
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I have a different definition to dating. By that definition you aren't doing anything wrong.
You see, by "dating exclusively" you aren't comitting to one person as in a relationship. Dating is a method of courtship where you select the best suitor for your desires and then place that suitor into a relationship with yourself.
During this time, I would recommend one of two things about "leading them on":
1) Avoid leading them on at all costs, if they become attatched you will get burnt again (they will be hurt and lash that out in a method to lessen their own pain)
2) Tell them upfront that you are looking for someone that is boyfriend material - and you are talking with several others. Let them know that you will make a decision eventually as to you and the other person being friends or a relationship (and please don't let that draw out indefinately)
If you have other concerns/questions - let me know~
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