I'm a black female who is interested in a white guy at my university. We have been talked for a few months now and I'm crushing pretty hard. Problem is my parents hate white people. If they knew I was into him I would get disowned and thrown out of the house. White people aren't even allowed foot in our yard let alone inside our home if I did introduce him to them. Just dating him is easier said than done. Anyone been in this situation?
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Respect your parents. They are providing you with an education which has taken you from them. I am sure you know that you do not win by pushing him in their face, so don't present him to them. No one needs the stress.
You cannot bring up a woman to be a good person and not see the world find her attractive. Slowly the purpose of your family will disapate and you will move on without them. It is their choice to stay stuck in a small world filled with hate.
Think about it, each time they see someone different they must search their mind for a reason to hate or drop their guard. It is a misserable life to be "on" at all times.
The time will come when they must come around to recognize what makes you happy. Life is about how we deal with change, every day is a new experiance and challenges, they will come around through time and prayer. Good luck,0