I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. He lives 6 states away from me currently and we aren't doing so well. Today he told me to pick between him and my friends. So I told him my friends because no guy should ever make a girl pick between her friends and her boyfriend. Was that wrong? Now all he is trying to do is make me seem like the bad guy because he says he has picked me over his friends before. The point is I would never ask him to give up his friends for me. If he did it on his own free will that's different. I need some help. Did I do the right thing?
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"Today he told me to pick between him and my friends."
That's called an ultimatun. NO romantic partner ever gives an ultimatum to another romantic partner. Anyone who does is not your romantic partner.
He needs to go - NOW. He is absolutely no good for you. Not only is he controlling as you suggest, he's immature and, worst of all, he really doesn't love you - he's currently incapable of it. He wants to own you.
Get rid of him now.0