Let me start by saying I am a 21 year old college student looking for a long term relationship. While I'm looking to date I generally only look for white guys. I am not racist but I am honestly not attracted to most (if not all) of black/mexican/asian/etc. guys. I know it's just my preference but it does get to me when people say in general "It's not a preference, it's racism" or "girls who do that are just stuck up and racist" . I don't know what to do anymore, if they want I can keep that hidden and just ignore their messages. I do know that they can be nice, but I won't date someone I have no attraction for.
Why is this considered racist when It's just my preference?
Do they expect me to go on a date with them (spend money on me), just for me to tell them, "sorry I don't think this can work"?
- This is racist35% (7)21% (6)27% (13)Vote
- This is just preference (not racist)60% (12)75% (21)69% (33)Vote
- Other5% (1)4% (1)4% (2)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
Just call them sexist because a lot of them don't prefer the same sex. I think that'll get the point across quite well. :P2