I've been going out with this guy for a few weeks now. We don't see often (maybe once or twice a week), he doesn't text frequently (maybe every few days ), doesn't really make an effort to see me and somehow stopped calling me cute stuff. However, when we see at one point we end up kissing... but only pretty innocent kisses without tongue and NO! hint at sex ever. Would you do that if you're not into her? Why? Does he maybe just want to take it slow or is there really no interest? Wouldn't you at least want to kiss with tongue or end up in bed? Any other explanations for his behavior? We're both in our mid 20s. Insights pleaaaase.
Guys, would you repeatedly kiss a girl if you don't want to take it further?
What Guys Said 2
Oh, it could go either way!! Maybe you're entertainment until something better comes along. Maybe he's very shy of sex and you're both taking it slow. Have you initiated tongue yourself?
Not all guys are super into sex, and not all guys are pushy about sex. So... if you're interested in things being a little heavier, you might have to start it. But if he's stopped calling you cute things, I'd not be happy about that myself.
Try bringing up the prospect of making out, or ask him outright if he things you guys are going anywhere.
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I think he likes you but doesn't want to feel like he's bothering you or coming off too strong. Although, this depends on his personality. If I dated a girl for a few weeks and only gave her little tiny kisses, it would be because I don't want to move too fast or she could be my wifey kinda thing. Especially if I were in my mid or late 20's. Thats when a lot of people start having kids and are settling down nowadays. If I were in a teen mentality, I would have tried to get the booty already. Or at least make out or something lol. Guys generally tend to take it slow if we value you more or if we are nervous or self conscious. Man what am I doing on this site at 1 a. m. I have to go to school tomorrow. lol.1
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