" I just want you to know that I wanted to be there for you as you make your transition in life but I hate to see you like this. If we are not on the same level and you cannot trust me then is going to hurt but maybe we should be friends so you can find out what you really want. I know what I want in life but I want to be with someone who wants to grow with me. I like you a whole lot but I feel like I'm not helping just being around." What would you do if you really wanted her to stay? Would this make you want her more? Explain
Guys, if you really like a girl but can't commit bc you are scared you might disappoint her would this text make you want her more?
What Guys Said 5
Ummm... I think something like this is best said in person.
That way you get his reaction, and you can finally tell for yourself how he feels about you.1
Nothing you say or do will make a guy change his mind about commiting to you.0
I am breaking up with my girlfriend because I can't commit, and she's the best one can think of0
The point to being a guy is that we want to keep you around as long as we can, without committing (if he's a commitment phobe of course). If you can't take not having a commitment, and you leave, that will just further his commitment phobia. We want to know you're going to stay no matter what.
Relationships are all about push and pull. Who can make the other one crack first0
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