I met this girl at the gym and I've been talking to her for 3 weeks now. I recently told her that I just wanted to be friends for a few reasons. Sometimes when she's talking to me I feel like everything coming out of her mouth is complete bull crap like its rehearsed or something. She talks about sex all the time. what she is going to do to me, sexual hints, positions, how she's a nympho seriously all the time and I'm never the one to bring it up. We haven't had sex yet but she has given me oral 3 times and she purposely tries to get me riled up. Everytime the dry humping starts I eventually stop because I know its not going to go anywhere and she gets mad about it lol. She says "do you stop because you know you aren't getting any? Maybe I want to see you riled up." Then the other night we were wrestling around on my bed and I accidentally hurt her. She seriously attacked me and was trying to break my finger. She blamed this on her being stressed out at work and life in general and that she took it out on me then assured me she doesn't have an anger problem. We didn't talk for a whole day then the next day she texted me and was pleading to me not to run and that's when I told her I wanted to be friends. She said that was fine but then unfollowrd me on instagram and deleted me off Snapchat but were still friends on Facebook... I don't know what that means. I love everything else about this girl. She lifts weights, she's a freak, she's a nerd and she comes and hangs out with me whenever I ask her to. She even took me on a movie date and paid for me, it actually felt pretty odd. My last girlfriend messed me up as far as trust goes, this is the first girl I've talked to in six months and I've been keeping her at a distance because of that. She always talks about my "walls" and how she's going to make me so happy one day. Is this girl completely full of shit or am I letting a nearly perfect girl slip through my fingers? PLEASE HELP the what if is driving me crazy.
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Run away lol.
Or better yet. Switch the roles. What would you say if your sister was telling you about this "guy"? What would you suggest she do? Does that sound like a person you want to be with? Does this person sound trustworthy?
Really, isn't she moving a bit too fast? I'm all taking ownership of your sexual identity; however, there's (in my opinion) too much focus on the sex, and less on the relationship... or whatever you label yourselves as.0