Or is it merely a painful exercise in futility?
I met a girl at school who completely blew my mind. I desire her more than anything and she occupies my mind so much that I cannot even think about or acknowledge other girls. When I looked into her eyes she lit up something in my spirit that I cannot explain, it was as if a flashlight was shined upon the deepest part of my soul. I felt that her soul was crying out for me even though her mind told her not to because she had a boyfriend so I respectfully retracted my flirtatious advances upon learning of her relationship, but for months now I keep thinking about her and even dreaming about her. I am willing to do whatever it takes to let myself into her heart. I pray to god every day that someday our spirits will come together again. I feel ignited with energy, passion, and a drive to try and win her, something I have never felt for any girl before.
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See, that's where our culture is completely incorrect. You don't "win" a girl's heart.
They're either attracted to you, or they're not. And if they are attracted to you, then they either like you as a person, or not. And if both conditions are met and they are interested in a relationship, THEN there's a chance for something to happen.
p. s.: Infatuation isn't all that special, although I do admit it's a great feeling.0
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