so, he's 27 and he told me that when he was in class and one of his classmates said he was a wimp out of nowhere. my boyfriend told him to stop being disrespectful. he didn't stop, he continued to call him other names. my boyfriend then decided to call over another guy who was bigger and asked if he'd call him a wimp... but the guy laughed and the big guy and the bully fist pumped or something.
i don't know.. i kind of got turned off when he told me this. i feel like a horrible person for allowing something like this to affect how i feel about him. it's like a switch literally went off, and i've been feeling like this for a week.
why do i feel this way and how do i get over it? has this happened to anyone else? your partner does something that changes the way you see them?
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He should not have asked another guy, to be honest. The best thing in theory would be to just tell him he has no time for this and walk away. And hope the other person doesn't get physical. I personally carry pepper spray with me just in case something like that happens, although luckily it has not yet.1