I know there's that whole cheesy saying that love will find you when you least expect it, but I'm not feeling that right now. I haven't really talked to a girl in months (In terms of flirting) I don't even text girls because they don't text back. Maybe they find me annoying. I just want to know if I should just forget about finding someone that way I won't waste my valuable time looking.
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First of all, don't give up, and don't stop putting yourself out there. Every guy goes through that; I know I have. As guys, we have to endure the vast majority of rejection; that's just how it is. Start out by going up and talking to girls. You might not ask them out, they might seem uninterested or even repulsed, but who cares? Just get used to talking to them. Girls are really good about picking up on your vibe; if it's negative, you'll be less successful than if you have the vibe of a guy who is comfortable in his own skin, knows what he wants, and goes for it. As cheesy as it sounds, your attitude determines your altitude. Good luck!0