This cute guy and I made out at a party 10 days ago. He took my number, called me three days later, picked me up and we went to have a drink together at a fancy place. We kissed again when he dropped me home.
We texted a bit the next day and the day after, we met at a party two days ago and made out again. When he dropped me home he asked if I wanted to go back to his place, I politely refused and changed the subject.
I knew what this meant, but I wasn't ready for that at all. I want to get to know him better, and maybe start dating, but after this night he didn't text me again.
I thought okay I should give up, doesn't seem like he wanted more than that. But then a friend tells me that the guy told him "he was seeing someone", but didn't want to tell him who until he was sure. I thought this might be me, but since he stopped texting it might be someone else...
What do you think? Should I text him? Or is he only interested in hooking up?
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I realize that I am an older guy and you might think might opinion is irrelevant, but. . . what message did it send when you started making out with a guy who you had just met? Did it say, "I'm looking for a serious relationship," or "I want a guy who will respect me."? Or did it maybe say "I'm horny and I'm looking for a quick hookup."? Did you act like a girl who he would be proud to introduce to his mother or did you act like one of those girls who he will never tell his mother about?
You know what this guy is looking for.0
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