He's more of an older guy and has gotten distant from most of his friends for whatever reason. But wants to make new friends, would you be turned off by that? doesn't have much of a social life but he is trying.
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not a turn off at all. Some of the more "engineer" type guys I've known have a small group of friends...I think my brother has 2 from highschool and has refused for 2 years now to make more friends at college...and hmmm I could give quite a few examples of guys I know and think are great guys with few friends. To me its normal. Women were born to social net-work, and men less so.
What IS important however, is why he has no friends. Is it because he's on the computer gaming 6 hours a day? Is it because he's depressed and won't return anyones calls? Is it because his self estime is so low he can't carry on a conversation? These are all bad reasons...but if its because he filled his quota, and he just doesn't need anymore than 2 friends, and life is fine...well then that's a fine reason for me. Or maybe school or work is real busy, but he hopes it will slow down in a year, or maybe he just moved...etc... The WHY is more impotant than the how many.1