Why is it so hard to find a guy now days? How can someone get approached? I know I get looked at, I catch guys doing it all the time but no one ever approaches. Guys tend not to approach in the bar but will approach my friend, who is wasted.
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Communication between the genders is so rough nowadays because many guys have seen so many issues approaching women and they've gotten turned down and have given up. Plus many younger people (both boys and girls) are growing up with no communication skills as it is with all this technology. Any guy can tell you there are women who flip out over holding the door open for them yet see comments online of girls liking that. So guys are very confused and figure if a girl is interested she'll talk to him because no matter what, many guys are afraid of being made out to be bad guys these days.
For every situation a guy thinks of approaching a girl, if he asks it on here there will be girls saying they don't wish to be approached.
Approaching a girl in the bar = assumed sex regardless of whether or not he is going for that.
Approaching a girl in any other situation will have comments of "she's busy shopping, working, etc. Even in someplace like a gym where the guy would already have a common interest would lead to comments of "I'm sweaty and don't want to be approached."
When it's a situation where you're looking for a cold approach, the intentions are typically assumed to be negative, underhanded, etc. This is why guys prefer to make friends with people so they have a networking into meeting up with a girl. Having a common friend and possible interest in common makes it a lot easier.0
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