I like to have fun and live life but I know that sometimes when I think about what I did on a date, I feel it went across as a easy hit.
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Flirty = Fun & living life to the fullest while making the other person envious of doing anything with you. That isn't limited to the bedroom, it can vary to traveling the world spontaneously, or going kayaking at the last moment while keeping a desire to be with that person. You give them something to keep them interested in you as a potential date / FWB / etc..
Slutty - You give them what they want and dress to impress rather than to express. You constantly are at parties and are perceived by your friends as a slut / skank / etc; it doesn't mean you are a slut or anything, it means you are perceived that way (people think of you in that form).
Either way, I suggest you stick to who you are at heart - do you really want to be the single parent of a child at the age of 14? It happens and it could ruin your life - or bring you great happiness.. To be safe, stay within your laws and wait until you are certain you are ready for such a task as parenthood. (I'm assuming you still want to be a child and experience life ;-D)