My boyfriend is the goofy, carefree guy. Who doesn't sweat the small stuff which is great most the time. Except for when I am truly upset and he just shruggs it off thinking Ill be fine in a couple hours. He doesn't take me seriously. I asked if he was worried if he was going to lose me and he laughed and said no, you love me. Its like he doesn't think I am capable of leaving him so he doesn't have to change. Whenever something bothers me I tell him, I want to talk about it and then him say sorry that its. No fight nothing. But he said that if you love somone you never get upset you just dont say anything. I said thats not how this works at all! I said i love you but that doesn't mean i won't be upset with you sometimes your not perfect and neither am i. How do I get him to take me and our relationship seriously?
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people tend to project themselves onto others. The fact that he trully believes that you'll never leavr him because you love him so much means that's how he feels about you. If you ask me, I think you hit the jackpot.0