Girls, what can men get away with before it hurts too much?

When do you stand up and leave fom a guy you met at a bar, or a guy you have been dating for a few weeks. or when an awkward moment happened?


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  • I leave as soon as I feel uncomfortable in any way.

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What Girls Said 6

  • When he starts being pushy, rude, overly sexual, or too physical before I am ready. At any of those points, I tend to just walk away from the situation before it gets worse, especially if they ignore my requests to calm down/back off.

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  • it doesn't take much for me to dismiss a guy early on. anything that would lead me to believe that he is disrespectful, rude, pushy, doesn't have boundaries, is needy, crazy, bum/broke, has too much drama in his life.

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  • I'm leafing if:
    at a bar- I'm just not attracted to him, he's being too overtly sexual, pushy, or is talking to me like it's an interview i. e. asking too many questions about me without offering any information about himself/ giving me a chance to ask him anything.

    dating a few weeks- if he's trying to rush things, everything has to be on his terms, he sleeps with someone else after we've slept together, if I he doesn't make a plan to see me at least twice a week (unless he's genuinely got a lot on that he's told me about), there's no contact for 3 days (I'm assuming there's not enough interest), if I see he's read a message on whatsapp and doesn't respond the same day without providing a reason (again I'll assume he's not interested).
    basically if he's too possessive, cheats, dramatic, hung up on an ex, selfish, doesn't seem interested, or has some deal breaking character flaw e. g. crazy, boundary issues, drug issues.

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  • everything duh silly...

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  • I am a serial dater who always walks away from men first and never makes any emotional investment.

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    • So what usually leaves you walking away from a date?

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    • I'd say those were three really good reasons to walk away.
      Out of curiosity, do you want to meet a guy you can emotionally invest in?

    • @HB I don't believe in love or monogamy + get bored easily. No man or woman (Im bi) is worth any emotional investment to me, even as a friend. ie: I just have dates + platonic acquaintances I meet out.

  • If he cheats I'm done if he doesn't see me as good enough to be faithful to then bye bye buddy

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