Dating a guy who wrote this on a forum about me (he doesn't know that i saw his post i just know his username and came across it):
"Dating a beautiful wonerful sweet woman, problem is i'm an emotional brick wall and can't truly get into the relationship, it sucks, hurts me everyday".
what did he mean by this?:(
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He's walled himself off as a defense mechanism and doesn't know how to let someone in if he tried. To do so would be extremely painful and most likely would cause him to run.
'I will let you down, I will make you hurt' basically sums it up. Playing with fire to get attached but I wouldn't give up on him due to some random post. Have a conversation, if this is how he truly feels he'll most likely have no problem admitting so. Maybe he isn't as closed off as stated in the post, maybe he can open up but if he tells you he wants to can't and will hurt you take his word for it.1