I'm just curious about this. If you would want to date me without me telling you anything about what I look like. I usually post these as anonymous because I like hidhing behind my posts but this one I won't. I come from a small town and have moved around so many times that I've lost count. I went to a country highschool and have lived in the country my whole life. I love working on the farm even though im super tired afterwords. I went to college and became a chef; working in a hotel. I don't have many friends but the few that I have are like sisters to me. I have only dated 2 guys and neither ended well. I've only kissed one guy. I am the friend that always helps others ans can always be counted on, even though sometimes it would be easier to hide from the world altogether. I absolutely love country music and just saw Luke Bryan in concert. I also love trucks and want a GMC Sierra; I;m a tomboy. This is just me being curious to see what happens. Most people want to see if they are dateable on looks but I prefer personality. So, would you date me?
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That would be enough to garner a first date, if you were within the physically acceptable range. Not enough to know if I would date you long term or not.
Most of that is based on circumstance, not core personality. You love country music and trucks, and are a tomboy, because you grew up in the country. Enough time in the city and that could change completely. My primary partner grew up in a tiny town in the north of Canada, super redneck, but a decade in the city and now you would never know.
Your personality, in terms of what it would take for me to date you long term, is different than just a list of your experiences, which is what you provide here. Saying you are a friend that can be counted on is probably the only part that's really hitting personality traits directly. I can pick other bits out, like you seem hard-working, and are probably dedicated. But really, it takes time to get to know someone, you need to see them under stress, under pressure, in difficult situations, to really understand what they are really like. It's easy to put on a happy mask when times are good.
Would I go on a date with a country girl? Yes, I have plenty of times in my past. That's all you're really asking here.0