There are not law restrictions because this is legal in my State, we already look it up. I'm not planning to marry him or anything. It's basically just for fun. He knows about so many things and I am fascinated with him. Plus he is my first man and I feel really good around him.
I'm not marrying him or anything. This is just to start experience life.
He is actually 52 and you guys are paranoid, he is actually a sweet guy. I don't even know why I asked this.
I have an exchange student friend in High School from Bulgaria and she says this is normal in Europe. People in Europe have sex since they are like 12. We in the United States are more closed minded.
I'm not gonna answer more answers. we been dating and everything is good and double checked legal, so no worries, is natural.
Do whatever makes you happy in your life... Weather he be 20-30-40-50 if he makes you smile.. and your sure and you think it's genuine then you carry on doing it.
No one hear can judge him at alll! they have never met the poor bloke.
I know this isn't really the main point here, but I still feel it's a good one to mention - older men are tempting to a lot of women... my girlfriends and I always talk about how hot George Cloony is He's 48! ... what about Alan Rickman? ...63! I know a lot of girls that are young that want him.
few more ... Hugh Bloody grant! 48!...
And now now ladies and gentlemen... Lets not forget the O so sought after.. Johnny Depp..46.. and of course... Brad Pitt - 45 & Tom Cruise 47.
And guys!... there are surely older woman who you - if the chance came'a knockin - would get with.
Again don't have a go at me... I know it's not the same thing, but I can pretty certain that over 70% of people have been attracted to an older male/female and some point, and would have jumped at the chance for a moment of passion! ... it''s just how it is.
Hun, You live once, doesn't matter who doesn't agree... It's your life ... It's your choice!... and tbh.. he is a bloody lucky man... your a stunnerr!
I don't care how cute or sexy you are, your an idiot. He's only using you for sex, and I'm quite sure he wants you to believe he's a "sweet guy". Run away while you still can, or just continue this phase that will only lead to more consequences in the future.
WHAT? I don't care where you are in the united states unless you have a baby it is illegal ANYWHERE in this country so look up the law a little better and yes in europe its the norm and legal but is so wrong you tell me where your fom or give me a number and I will have his ass locked up myself I will fly down there and slap his ass right in the face with the papers saying its illegal then have his child molesting ass locked up where he belongs that man belongs in jail and deserves to get things shoved up in his ass while he is in there that's completely disgusting and your parents must chimps or monkeys to let you do that you have a messed up life and I am sorry to hear that and I hope one day you realized how much of a mistake that is
This is wrong on all level. I don't care if you are experimenting. Why can't he find someone close to his age or a legal adult that isn't a teenager. This may be something you want to do, but he knows you're young and is taking advantage of you and the situation. When a 50 year old man wants to have sex with a16 year old girl, you have to question why. Stay away from him.
It's inappropriate for him to consider dating you. He's old enough to be your father. There's a well know rule. Half his age divided by two and then add seven. That means the youngest woman he should consider dating is 32 years old. You're half that age. You two can be platonic friends but that's it.
This kinda stuff frightens me...i think you need to watch Dateline NBC's To Catch a Predator. You need to realize that there are crazy people out there that will prey on young attractive girls like yourself.
You may be fascinated by how much knowledge he has and such, but don't let that smoke screen distract you, he's making you feel extra comfortable and is exploiting you. Let's be honest, your 16, attractive, and naive. You may not think your naive, but he does...and is manipulating your emotions making you think that you are safe.
It's definitely wrong to date a 50 year old man especially if your 16. I hope you wake up and realize what is going on, because even people that don't know you wouldn't want anything bad to happen to you. Situations like these cause mass controversy because your so young and he's so old. Your still going through hormonal changes and he's going through a mid-life crisis.
If you do not like guys your age...try dating guys your age from out of town or someone who is about 2 years older than you. The reason why you probably don't like guys your age is because they are extremely immature and you are more mature for your age.
There are too many guys out there for you, that are close or around your age. This 50 year old guy was in his mid thirties when you were born. It's ridiculous.
I'm not sure what type of fun a 16 year old girl is looking for, but a 50 year old man is looking for one thing sexual fun, because his wife is not as active sexually with him. Think about it a little. Use your head...
i agree with one of the other post... haha... watch yourself... you just may end up on dateline or msnbc or any other nationally broadcasted network for a missing persons report or another rape/murder vic... you know... the usual here in the states... but, it is your choice as sad as that is because you're only 16... sorry to sound like an ass... but I am pretty blunt... and seeing people get raped and murdered isn't cool especially by creepy old dudes who are probably older than your parents...
People in the States have a tendency of close-mindedness and hostility towards things or ideas that are different or otherwise not "the norm". But honestly, there is nothing wrong with your decision. There is nothing wrong with "age gaps" in a relationship, big or small.
Legally, you are still a minor though, and despite the age of consent being 16 in some states, there usually is a maximum number of years older a partner can be before it does in fact become illegal, at least in terms of sexual activity. Though once you are 18, no one can say anything. Until then, just be careful.
What are you doing? :) bless.
Please, ignore this 52 year old sleeze, delete all contact information, block him and get a restraining order if you must.
Sorry but this guy is just so wrong for you on so many levels I can't even begin to explain why and I can only assume your age and teenage infatuation is causing you to fail to see how utterly flawed this whole scenario is.
"No one hear can judge him at alll! they have never met the poor bloke. "
He is 52 and she is under 18, that alone is enough to let us know what this guy is about.
Ask yourself this: If this guy is so great how come he has to resort to picking up young girls who don't know any better?
OP, he is a creep, please just...cut off contact with him and if he persists tell your parents so they can ensure he gets slapped fully by the law. Just because something is legal doesn't make it right or acceptable.
Oh my god. . . I will definitely be keeping a watch out for you on Dateline NBC. . . You have gotten yourself into deep trouble. I would be so careful hun. . Oh my god. . . If I knew my daughter was dating a man older then me, she wld never see the sun ever again.
My girl. I have no words.except there are a lot of guys around your age and even in thier 20's you can experience life with even if they are a LITTLE older than you.So I'm not saying its wrong because I like older guys too.But no NORMAL 50 year old would want to chill with a 16 year old in "that way" Like I think that if you wanted to hang with a guy who was in his 20's that would be more reasonable ,you know what I mean.This guy could use you in so many different ways. I really hope you find someone else to explore the world with who is not 50. Best of luck to you hun xoxo
You got many answers but I just want to say, I'm from Europe, and we do not have sex since we are 12 or something. Seriously. GB has big problem with teen pregnancies but generally average age is like 16 or 17. Higher in Holland, lower in GB. And yes we are more open minded than you but please do not make Europe seem like a land of pornography. We are just not so obsessed with sex as you are^^
i am with you in a way. I like older guys too but I haven't been with a guy that is 50 I think the oldest guy I was with was 35 or 36 or so he said. I mostly go for later 20's early 30's. Guys our age have no idea how do work things haha. I a fuzzy on who I lost my virginity to cause I was 13 and the guy was 13 and I really don't know if it went in lol but like a month after that I had sex with this guy who was 26 and he got the job done for sure ha. don't worry about age just be careful girl
Think of it this way... if you have lived on this earth for 50 years... why would you ever find satisfaction in a companion that is a third of that age? Men that are 50 are much more established and have experienced many more things than you have, and at that point are looking for the real deal.
What I' trying to get it is that he is using you for sex, and that since this is illegal (as you are under 18), he could go to jail for this. I know you think you know him really well... but he is a sick man and you are putting your life and safety at stake. stop contacting him immediately before someone finds your dead body in a ditch.
i can understand liking older guys but someone whos 30+ years older is wrong. you're still really young and I doubt you understand the situation. it's possible that he can get in serious trouble for being with you.
i personally find this a little bit disguisting. I'm pretty sure you can do a lot better! he's old enough to be your grandfather isn't that just a little bit disturbing to you? I mean everyone says "love is love" but I think there's a time when you gotta draw the line. if this was in another country it would be considered rape if you did anything with him. I know you want to experiance life but maybe experiance it with someone a little closer to your age !
Holy daddy issues.
If you don't want anyone's opinions whatever. I could care less what you do. Hopefully you don't get pregnant that would be terrible for the gene pool. If anything bad happens to you, remember this post and don't come back crying for sympathy because you knew what you were getting into.