What is the best way to approach a girl and talk to her, when in your head and heart you really want to say something clever and be more then friends. It gets to the point that it causes you to freeze up and not do anything but just sit there look and just wonder "what if". Yet at the same time you want to approach her and be able to get past "Hello," because as a guy you always have to have the what next. The whole thing about the guy approaching, having the dates planned out and really putting everything on their shoulders really puts a lot of stress on the guy, especially for guys like me who are shy. Don't have any idea of actually how to push through my fear and talking and asking out girls in reality. Not to mention I have had dates, but not a lot which strikes fear in my heart, because I wonder if I will ever get a girlfriend and get married being that I am 29 almost 30 years old and never really had a girlfriend.
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Start talking about something simple for a while, then if she's receptive, ask for her number.0