He is not acting weird, he is acting like a guy that is actively pursuing different relationships. He is clearly no longer committed to you, and clearly trying to move on. It takes almost no effort for him to maintain a LD relationship while he does this, so he hasn't bothered to break up with you, but he is clearly shopping the market, and taking your name off instagram is a clear sign that he is trying to make sure the other girls that he is pursuing don't know you are in the picture.
He is not thinking about your feelings, not caring about how his actions affect you, or make you feel. He has emotionally checked out of the relationship. It is only a matter of time now before he checks out completely. Most likely he will wait until he has someone else 'secured' before he does it, but once that happens he will be gone.
You deserve better than this, and you should take control of your life and your feelings and end this relationship. It is going to cause you nothing but emotional distress moving forward, and while it may hurt to end it will be far better for your mental health in the long run. Dragging this out will do much more severe emotional damage over time.
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He's certainly not giving the impression he wants to be with you. Maybe he's just a cuddly guy. Maybe he's excited that people think he's hot (I know I would be! But when that's happened to me and I've shared it with my girlfriend, I've made damn sure she knew SHE was the one with the hot bf) Long distance relationships are hard... and it doesn't sound like he's giving you enough focused attention.
Have you told him you weren't pleased with the whole "texting other people during fall asleep together time?"
Sounds less like he is trying to make you jealous and is more trying to get you to break up with him.
Please dump him. Please respect yourself and realize he has zero regard for you.
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Time to break up and move on. Long distance doesn't work usually. It's rare to find honest and committed people like me 😐
Sounds like you are about 9th or 10th in line, unfortunately...
You need to make it clear that you won't stand for that. Tell him he can do that but he won't do it while in a relationship with you. That makes you look like a such a fool. Screw that.
So what are u gonna do now? are u gonna put up with this?
time to end relationship
he's become a dickheadHe is an asshole. Dump his ass.
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