Its weird, I can totally respect a "wimpy" guy as a friend but not at all as someone I would date. Maybe its because I live on a farm and am a very capable person myself? I mean, if I can hook a log to a 4-wheeler and drag it off I would not want to date someone who's opinion was "Ew. Work, outdoors, sweat", but I would just laugh and tease a friend. The thing that makes me wonder if it is a bad mentality is that this guy can be super nice, but I still would not have much respect for them in a relationship. Is this pretty normal or is it bad
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It's pretty normal.
It's also why a lot of guys who have mainly female friends 'mysteriously' can't date.1