Guys, so many girls are told that we can't make the first move because guys are supposed to be the ones who are supposed to do that. Would you be fine with a girl making the first move or is it as desperate as our mothers and other have been telling us?
- Make the first moveVote A
- Girls shouldn't make the first moveVote B
Most Helpful Guy
Girls saying it is "desperate" are just too afraid to make moves themselves. If you like a guy and you show interest, you get his priority attention compared to the wallflower who is too afraid to make a move because now you're interested in him and he sees that you take initiative. This isn't to say that a guy should take the typical stance these wallflower girls are taking and be wallflowers themselves. If you like someone, just say hello. If they're not interested, it's not the end of the world.2