They will fight to the death for equal pay, jobs, etc but when it comes to dating they refuse to approach or tell girls to approach even though they want to be treated equal. So why do most women never approach more?
Why don't feminist ever say why don't women approach more?
What Girls Said 2
Because some of them want to have their cake and eat it too. Seems to be the way things are going in this world.5
You're clearly blind and/or deaf because I've been saying it and I'm sure many other women have.
1) NO ONE should approach if they don't want to (this includes men as well if you can't comprehend that). There should be NO "forced roles" on this. Men are the ones that are "expected" to walk up to a woman, but that should stop. If he doesn't feel comfortable or if he doesn't want to, then he shouldn't be expected to nor should he. Same for women.
2) Someone's PREFERENCE has NOTHING to do with Feminism/Equality. Some women don't want to approach. Some women want that traditional man to care for them. That's okay because that's what they want.
I'm not going to walk up to a man EVER again. It's not about being rejected for me. I don't do it because if I have to walk up to a guy, I'm more than likely not into you. I like guys who walk up to me because I can see that he was confident enough to approach. That's sexy to me.
3) If you made this question because YOU are having a tough time with men, that's YOUR problem. Don't take it out on innocent people. Don't expect people--just because you're shy or you have negative thoughts that you use as a defense mechanism to approaching women or whatever your possible issue is--to walk up to you because you can't. walk up to them. That's being hypocritical (because you're placing a role on women to approach yet complaining about men having to approach).
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What Guys Said 6
So let me understand how this works:
"We want to be paid equally!", foolish nonsense.
"We want to approach men and jump on the D!", all that matters?1
Uh, well, You see,
Do you know many feminists or are you just hating on the fact that women don't approach you?3
a world where women do more approaching is a world where you will feel even more neglected than you probably do now. Do you think in a world where girls did most of the approaching, all the nice guys will finally find some reprieve? You would be marked and bypassed like the passover. Find the perks in being the one to approach first, as there are many2
because they are lesbians...2
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