We used to text daily and she would always text me in to morning until we fell asleep. She tells me she wants to make things work (relationship) between us and wants to hangout yet she has not shown that very well lately. Over this past week she has told me she is going through a rough time, that has resulted in her hardly responding to my texts. One of our mututal friends (arguably one of her best friends) has also stated she has been very distant as of late. She keeps apologizing for ditching hangouts and not texting and tells me "I do want to hangout, but I also don't want to waste your time" I guess inferring that she doesn't want me just sitting there getting frustrated at all the dealys (which we talked about before).
If you had a crush on someone, why would you be doing this? It's all leaving me very confused, I am trying to be supportive of her has she says she is going through a rough time.
What should I do?
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When I have a crush on a guy and I'm going through a rough time, I don't want to show him my down side. I want to continue to impress him and that's not going to happen with a bad mood. Best thing you can do is to show support, compliment her and remind her of fun memories of you two together. If you don't want to deal with this, you don't have to though.
So chances are she definitely still likes you, but is pulling away because she still wants to impress you but her self-esteem is so low.0