I've been dating this guy for about 9 months now. He's 9 years older than me.. We go out on dates , talk everyday, and have sex. I've asked him if he ever thought of us as friends with benefits and he said no.. I've told him plenty of times how I felt about him and I don't know if he's too shy to ask me to be his girlfriend or what? He's told he wants to wait for the perfect time to ask me to be his girlfriend and he wants it to feel " natural " ... Whatever that means lol.. I've asked him does he think he's falling for me and he replies " I don't know " I've even asked him did he want to be my boyfriend ( like me making the first move like to ask him out ) and he says " I don't know " should I just wait or no?
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Oh, for God's sakes... press him for an answer. If he's that commitment-averse after everything you already do together, that says something about him. Speaking as a pretty shy guy myself, he ought to be able to give you a straight answer if he feels anything for you.1