This married guy, has been flirting with me and trying to have sex with me for 5 years. I haven't wanted to do any of that cause he had a wife and a kid. I always had a crush on him and on the last year I've fallen in love with him unbeknownst to him. A few months ago he asked me out on a date, which I all stupid and hormone ridden accepted. We had this long passionate kiss, the best kiss of my life really and he hugged me and sniffed my hair so as to never forget me. We went out on a second date and we talked for hours and then at the end he told me that that was all he could offer and that he couldnt give more, to which I answered that I couldnt continue seeing him because I loved him and would want more myself. He was angry and furious and he got angrier when I told him that I loved him. For me that is very odd. How can a person get angry and feel insulted when someone else tells them that they love them? Why couldnt he just accept it, say he was sorry I felt that way and kindly leave me alone?
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Maybe you telling how you felt made him realise what he has been doing... Going behind his wife's back and the hurt that it would cause her... Let alone the hurt you would go through... He obviously isn't too happy with his current life so was possibly trying to have a secret one with a lack of emotion but a lot of fun... Would you be able to trust him if you ever got together? Would you not constantly think he would be going out and talking to another girl? I could never trust anyone that did this...1