I met this guy online and I really like him (I feel emotional and also a physical attraction to him). We had 3 dates already, all of them took longer than 4 hours, so we had enough time to talk. And today we kissed first time and we also ended up making out. I enjoyed it, even when he touched me all over my body, bu I didn´t want him to undress me (it is really too early for me and I didn´t felt like that, but he didn´t even pushed me).
This is a good guy, a nice one. So I´m wondering if he doesn´t think anything bad about me (that I´m easy or so.. I just realy felt like that)..
- No, that´s cool, completely normal80% (12)89% (16)85% (28)Vote
- It is a bit too soon, but he probably doesn´t have bad opinion on you20% (3)11% (2)15% (5)Vote
- Too early in my opinion0% (0)0% (0)0% (0)Vote
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The opposite of "easy" isn't "never." The opposite of "easy" is "careful and selective." If you know him well enough to trust him and you know he isn't just looking to score, then you proceed at a pace that is comfortable for you. No one else can make that decision for you.
Easy girls jump into bed on a first date; I know because I've had a few of those first dates. For an easy girl, sex is about nothing more than feeling good here and now. For a girl like you, sex is a way of becoming closer to someone who is becoming a regular part of your life.
The best way to make sure that your gentleman knows you are not an easy girl is for you and him to actually have a discussion about it - in person and definitely NOT by text - and to let him know that you are very attracted to him but that you also want to be careful.
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