I've been seeing a guy for 2 months now. He's a great guy and looking for a relationship and we see each other a few times a week. When we are togther he's really open with me but when we aren't he'll message me each day to ask how my day is and then won't reply. When this happens a lot I feel quite disconnected from him so I decided I'm wanted to call him at some point tonight or tomorrow night and ask him if he's free for a quick chat face to face
I'm going to just say that I understand not everyone is Into texting especially guys but I'm feeling a little disconnected at the moment. I'll tell him I love spending time with him but guys connect with the girls they like through sex and being physical where as girls connect through words and I'm just feeling a little disconnected because I never know if that's him losing interest or just how he is and if it is then we need to find another solution or this just won't work for me.
Do you think that'll do more harm then good this early on?
I don't wanna seem clingy because I'm not I just want a bit more communication in between seeing other as most people would.
Will this option cause more harm then good? Any help wild be greatly appreciated :)
I just want to address this straight away without games or a fight so we can just let things continue to flow.
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Don't say any of that! Lol!
Men are not into sending paragraphs via text... He's letting you know that he was thinking of you when he sends the first message... He's satsffied knowing that you see he was thinking of you. Women seem to feel that they need long conversations and lots of words to validate someone's feelings, but men feel that saying "hi" in a text or driving an hour (just an example) to see someone is all we need to say. Basically we gesture our feelings... Women verbalize theirs... There is a happy medium, but wait til the you've been together a bit longer before you Dr Phil him about the way he communicates. :)0