I am almost 18 now and about to date this girl I feel very strongly about. I might not tell her at all, I might tell her if our relationship becomes serious. I'm still intensely ashamed of my actions. The last girl I dated had a very physical and emotional relationship with me. We would touch each other and feel each other up (which, looking back, WAS EXTREMELY WRONG and INAPPROPRIATE) and occassionally I would sneak into her house afterschool and we would explore. It was a mix of curiousity and hormonal feelings. We never had intercourse of any kind, but we would touch, explore, and have oral with each other. It makes me aroused to think about but that makes me very ashamed. I have finally let go of the past and learned from my mistakes. I'll never do this again (before marriage).
My question is, is this something I should tell her at all? Is it something I should tell her later on? How would this make her feel about me? Would it change how she felt about me? Culturally, it is very bad to do what I did but at the same time I learned a lot from my mistakes, which is what makes me the great person I am now. While other guys around me push girls for early sex, like her old boyfriend did, I have satisfied my curiousity of the female body and learned that it is better to hold off on these things until the future.
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No. Just let it go dude1