I just met up with a guy and we ended up hanging out for like for the entire day We got food went walking drove around. He is fantastic, lovely and everything but he is overcoming a addiction (group meetings, therapy) and he cantget into a serious relationship until after he's sober fora certain amount of time...
I;'m so proud of him and I want him to keep going... but I'm confused about my feelings. We said we'd date around and stuff and but I dont really feel like dating knowing he's there. I want to call him and talk to him and see him. And after he keft ( we didn't go all the way at my request) I feel lonely and want him back in my room. I never have felt like I wanted someone back in my company.
We said we would sitll date but I was so jealous at him talking to other girls. He's perfect and I feel weird and like upset and stuff. We agreed to hang out again in the future and we liked each other but were not that definate i guess because he has a addictive personality and has to go to meetings and I don't know i want to message him but i ust spent 8 hours with him... ugggggghhhh this is so f*cking annoying. I want to message him but I dont have experience dating ang keeping things going... So I may come off depserate (I am I kind of reeeeaaallly like him)
How can I stop being needy? Does anyone. He's so great it's just dhavd this problem. He is so great its disgusting I don't know
and i have like 3 other guys i said can take me out on a date too because of this app who I've been talking to longer over text (I over swiped right... lol) but I dont know I dont really want to see them but should I get over him for now
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In order to stop being needy, you gotta stop thinking he the BEST thing ever happen to you (even if he is). You gotta believe that you are a quality woman and have ton of options and you want him but don't NEED him.
Fill your day with thing to do so you be constantly busy. That can help.1