Why do men pursue women that are looking for a LTR when they just want to have fun?

If all that man wants is to have sex and fun why go after women who have verbaly expressed that they are looking to setting down? There are PLENTY of women who don't mind having a FBW or caual relationships. Why present yourself as a man who wants something serious only to disapear after the sex?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • A couple things are in play here. One is that he finds a particular woman attractive, and thinks if he is just persistent that he can break her down or change her mind. This is usually a false assumption, and is narcissistic. It shows a profound lack of respect. Hence the lying/misrepresentation to get what they want, then disappear. The problem for women is that they have to learn how to "read" the men's sometimes subtler actions (never fall for their WORDS), to see their real motives, and the truth of the men they date. Some girls are more intuitive, others are less so. Either way, you will know them by their ACTIONS, not words.

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What Guys Said 3

  • They are thinking with the wrong head.

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  • Actually there aren't many women who want friends with benefits relationships. Most women accidentally get into them with guys they really want to date.

    Plus, he wanted you. If guys are consistently disappearing after sex on you then you're either not very good at sex (you should really work on that if that is the case), or you're finding men who are already committed to someone else.

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  • Bacause most men want to get into anything and everything.

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What Girls Said 1

  • Some of them just don't care. Others will like those types of women better because they aren't full of STDS and aren't as used up.

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