Hi guys, I really need your honest advice. There's this guy who's back in my life. When we 1st met we had an instant connection. But then I fucked up, drank half a bottle of Jack Daniels and we ended up having AMAZING sex. He wasn't really acting weird after that. Long story short I thought I was pregnant and he went psycho on me. Told me I wasn't having that baby that he didn't want to have a baby with me or ever be with me and that hurt me bad so I stopped talking to him. Now he's back in my life again and I don't want to open my legs again. I want him to see me as more than just sex. We live an hr away and I know he's going to expect to get a hotel room to sleep with me. What should I do to get his mind off sex and focus on getting to know the real me?
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So he does all that fucked up stuff to you, and you think he can suddenly change and be a good guy and even boyfriend material? Please wake up. He is only going to use you again, and will tell you whatever he think you want to hear in order for you to have sex with again. Please tell me your self esteem is not THAT low! Have some self respect, dignity, and good standards. Otherwise, you are just begging to be messed with, used, and abused. Life is too short to waste your time, heart, or body on guys like this.1