Do you immediately think that she's a slut or a whore? Please answer honestly.
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Here's the thing, if a guy's not into you at all, he's probably not going to stick around for too long hoping that you'll give it up. If you make it to the third date, good chance he's at least thinking of sticking around.
But you're not going to scare off a guy who's really into you just because you had sex with him. It just doesn't happen. If he was really into you beforehand, he'll be really into you after. If he wasn't, then he won't. The sex doesn't change anything.
If YOU are having sex with a guy on the first date because you're really into him, then that's on you. Very few single guys are going to turn down sex with someone they find attractive, even if they're not interested in ~being~ with her.
Yeah, it's disappointing and shitty to find out after the fact, but when this happens, it's not the sex that scared him off, it's that he just wasn't that into you in the first place.2