I really like him, I do. But when I'm honest and nice to him making an effort he seems not interested- barely messages and is flaky with plans
so I give up and stop trying and stop texting him and he messages me things asking to see me and that he misses me, when he knows I'm losing interest.
Its been a few months and I'm sick of it.
We were meant to see each other in a couple of days but he messaged saying he has a family member staying and has to stay in with them. So I just replied ok. I'd suggest another night but I guess you're busy then too :p take care him x
He hasn't said anything after that yet
what should I do? He's sweet when we are together but we don't see each other that often... Just sick of the hot and cold, I don't like games :( why can't it be simple and easy
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If after a few months he's still not putting in the effort that you'd like to have, I'd cut your losses. It's hard, I know. But if he's still blowing hot and cold at this point and flaking out, it's not going to end well. If you stop initiating all together and aren't so easily accessible and he steps up and becomes consistent with you then maybe, but I'd say as much as it hurts you should think highly enough of yourself to walk away, knowing you deserve better than that. Good luck! We've all been there, and in hindsight I look back and kick myself for not walking sooner.1