Just realized I've been dating a psychopath. The only one thing that was good about him was sex. He vanished for a week and now making contact. I understand this is the hoovering stage as he wants to remain control.
Cease contact is probably the best bet as they fuel on people's emotions. Just curious if there are ways to beat them at their own games?
here's sign you are dating a psychopath http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/12/07/dating-a-psychopath_n_4378946.html
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Unfortunately I married young and stupid... to a sociopath. Your absolute best bet is to run for the hills and never look back. There is no beating them at their own game unless you can think like them and feel no empathy for hurting someone. To be truthful, he probably wouldn't even notice if you beat him at his own game, he'd twist it in his head to imagine it's something else or worse, try to get back at you. Leaving my now ex was a disaster and these people enjoy revenge and don't feel things like normal people. Avoid him like the plague and pretend you never met him, that'll be more of a strike to his ego than anything.1
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