I am so bad at dating, or maybe i have dated the wrong guys? I am 23 and never had a boyfriend.
Lately a new guy has been on my mind, a guy i dont meet or see that often but often enough. I see him whenever i am at work and this past year we have gotten more in touch, i have worked there for 4 years and so has he ( we dont work at the same place but the same mall).
Last Monday i was brave enough to add him on facebook after stalking and searching for him, and we talked on fcb a little bit. He stops by my job at times and we chat a little, i stalked his fcb and noticed how he had or has a girlfriend i am not sure.. it doesn't say in a relationship so i dont know..
I really like him and i think he is so adorable and his personality is great BUT i dont know how to make him ask me out, i want him to ask me out because i am afraid of being rejected and looking like a idiot.. what if he has a girlfriend i mean how silly wouldn't that be..
I wish i was brave enough to go up to him and be like hey want to grab some coffe together sometime.. and not do it on facebook but rather do it in person.. but im so lame ^^ and my brother said it is so desperate when a girl asks a guy out.. so maybe i should just wait it out? its been like 2 weeks only since i have started to notice him more and more..
Maybe just flirt and show interest a bit more before i jump the gun?
"Courage doesn't mean you dont get afraid, courage means you dont let fear stop you"
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If you don't know about a girlfriend then don't ask him out until you find out... I'm sure during one of your talks you can find a way to bring it up.. can't you? Don't touch the subject until you find out and when you do find out remember you work together and how it can change things if you did ask him out and he said no or even yes0