What if a guy is shy and not confident but he has a high paying job?

what should he do? should he now stay away from girls since they most likely are using him or how can he be careful


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Most Helpful Guy

  • I'd keep my money a secret if I were you. "Hi, I'm shy and not very confident but I have lots of money"... She be like "eeeexcellent!"

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What Girls Said 4

  • Don't let them know about your job at first.

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  • No one will use you unless you allow them too. Guys can be so dramatic over this.

    And yes I would date a guy like that just cause I'm shy myself and confidence isn't that important in comparison to personality and compatibility.

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  • Just be humble. Downplay how much you earn if you're concerned a girl might be using you for your money, and don't have it be a conversation starter

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  • Stay away because you obviously think women are out to use you. Frankly, there's lots of great guys out there so we won't miss you. 😉

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    • well i never had a girlfriend before so there is a song "if she can't love me now, don't love me later when my later is much greater it proves she loves the paper " so if girls weren't into me then i say maybe it's my job besides i tihnk if i married i might have to do everything for the girl so I don't know

    • You may want to consider not taking a song literally and using it as reliable relationship advice.

What Guys Said 4

  • he should just say fuck it and go for what he wants.

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  • actually most guys who r shy... have high-paaying job, judging from wot i've noticed ;)

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  • Keep your income to yourself for a while. You must be doing something right, so talk about your passions.

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  • Be very careful because there are plenty of gold diggers after you - pay very close attention to their eyes aka the window to the soul. The thing is, you should not reveal that you have a high paying job or that will completely change the game.

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