When I chill with this girl she laughs at what I say and smiles but I don't know if I'm boring because sometimes there's just silence and I stare into space if we are eating food or soemthing then she or I would have to start talking about a new topic again, I noticed that she's ussually the one bringing up different topics. When you chill with a girl/ someone do you always have to be talking and laughing or is it okay to have silence sometimes, even awkward silence.
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Awkward silence is awkward, but trying to follow it up with something else may be even more awkward, sometimes the silence will be good, you're both just quiet and you can use that time to look at her, see what she's wearing, if she's looking at something specific, and then try to start up a new conversation. Always talking is tiring too.1