I bumped into this man on the bus, and we exchanged numbers. Then after we mysteriously bumped into each other at the train station, (3times) where I was doing my pick up of my 6 year old from his Dad's weekend visit.
We talked on the phone on, and off for a month. I had an issue, with a group of friends, he was sympathetic, and great with giving advice.
Then we started dating so far its been 5 weekends.
He eats,(i recieve food stamps) plays with my son... actually really plays... video games, and taught him how to ride his bike last weekend.
The problem is he has not spent any money on me. No dates, or a restaurant, or chinese food, or anything.. He is awesome but how do I ask him or breach this subject?
This is a red flag for me, and I figure if I question it now then I can deal with it properly.
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It is a serious red flag. You don't want a man who is a leech or a slacker. Sounds like he may be one. Instead of phrasing it to be about money, tell him it would be nice to get out somewhere.1