How long do you wait?

In regards to dating after a breakup.

Let me set the scene for you. Dated for 3 years and you had a messy breakup, how long should you take before you start dating again?

  • 1 - 2 weeks
    10% (1)27% (3)19% (4)Vote
  • 2 - 4 weeks
    20% (2)27% (3)24% (5)Vote
  • 2 months
    20% (2)0% (0)10% (2)Vote
  • 4 months
    10% (1)18% (2)14% (3)Vote
  • 6 months
    30% (3)28% (3)29% (6)Vote
  • 1 year
    10% (1)0% (0)4% (1)Vote
And you are? I'm a GirlI'm a Guy
Updates:
It seems as though the men and women are at the opposite ends of the spectrum here. Not entirely surprising from what I have known before yet I seems that 4 months is somewhat the middle ground for us both
sorry 3* months

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Most Helpful Girl

  • No specific time frame for me.

    whenever the heart mends itself

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What Girls Said 2

  • I would wait a while because being in a relationship for three years you create a lot of memories and live your life differently. So take some time and work on yourself.

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  • I would wait half a year to a year.

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What Guys Said 5

  • once she asks again actually ;)

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  • Honestly there is no specific amount of time.

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  • take some time to evaluate why that relationship ended and what you are looking for in a new one. be it a couple weeks or a month or 2

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  • No recipes. When I feel good about it I'll start.

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  • U didn't have 45sec up ther so i said 1 wk

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