This always happens to me. When i really notice that a girl is interested in me, smiling, looking into my eyes, talking to me, trying to walk behind me to be near me etc etc.. But the problem is i am really shy but normal and not desperate at all. I show respect i am a really relaxed, norma guy.. So i'v decided to contact het on Facebook messenger.. just sending a normal message asking how was her day.. is she tired from work.. nothing sexual at all really. So i'v tried to talk about general things hobby's what kind of food she loves and all that normal things. I asked her what hobby's does she have does she likes movies or music.. she says no i dont like movies neither music.. i only love being with my friends and family.. so oke no problem.. Next i ask her like do you like food what do you love to eat? She only answer well everybody loves food right? She's pushing me away i don't get it.. why do you openly flirt with me, look me into my eyes, look my up where i am at, standing next to me.. and then treat me like **** for no reason at all? She didn't even ask me what i love to eat, how my day was or what hobby's i have. So i'v decided to just say OKE (Y) thats it since then she didn't even send me a message. What is wrong with me am i retarded or something? This happens all the time.. i don't get it... so it seems talking nasty things about sex and all that stuff gets you the girls.. and being a total jerk off. Can somebody explain me this really?
Why does it happend that girls "flirt" show interest in me, looking me into my eyes and smiling.. when I contact her gives me the cold shoulder?
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" I asked her what hobby's does she have does she likes movies or music.. she says no i dont like movies neither music.. i only love being with my friends and family"
"Next i ask her like do you like food what do you love to eat? She only answer well everybody loves food right? "
it's clear she's tryin to avoid u :)1
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